Hitching a ride, trusting a partner, marrying the same person three times
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D. Killian’s work has appeared in Sojourners, Curve, Diva, the Lambda Book Report, the Harvard Gay and Lesbian Review, and the Cleis Press anthology Dyke’s Dream Home. She lives in New York City, where she is an organizer for the National Writers Union.
Nonviolent Communication focuses on what’s alive in us and what would make life more wonderful. What’s alive in us are our needs, and I’m talking about the universal needs, the ones all living creatures have. Our feelings are simply a manifestation of what is happening with our needs. If our needs are being fulfilled, we feel pleasure. If our needs are not being fulfilled, we feel pain.